I dont understand what im doing wrong, the mod seems to crash every time i change resolution, change controls, or randomly when im quicksaving/loading, did a clean install on both rtcw and realrtcw

Crashlog could help to pinpoint the issue. Look up the FAQ thread on how to provide it.

I reproduced the crash but there is no crash log in the main folder

I just get a message asking if I want to start the game in “safe” mode due to inappropriate video settings

Log should be there.
Double check it:
Crashes for no reason
1) Start the game
2) Open the console with SHIFT+ESC
3) Enter: "/developer 1" and "/logfile 2" commands
Game should now open in developer mode with logging to file enabled. This should print some more messages which could help identify the issue + saves them to file.
4)Try to reproduce the crash.
After crash a new file should appear inside "%userprofile%\Documents\RealRTCW 4.0\main" named "rtcwconsole.log".
5)Post crashlog somewhere (for example on
pastebin.com)
or send it to me personally so I could take a look.

Log should be there.
Double check it:
Crashes for no reason
1) Start the game
2) Open the console with SHIFT+ESC
3) Enter: "/developer 1" and "/logfile 2" commands
Game should now open in developer mode with logging to file enabled. This should print some more messages which could help identify the issue + saves them to file.
4)Try to reproduce the crash.
After crash a new file should appear inside "%userprofile%\Documents\RealRTCW 4.0\main" named "rtcwconsole.log".
5)Post crashlog somewhere (for example on
pastebin.com)
or send it to me personally so I could take a look.
https://pastebin.com/1Usza5DP
the game crash everytime i try new game (sometime can see the initial short)

I delete wolfenstein and real wolfenstein and download theme again.
But the same message Could open whit the resolution and try in safe mode starts again and agian same ass others say...! i cant play the game whit the mod any more...!
Pleas fix this problem soon...!

has this been fixed yet? i really want to play the mod but sadly it will not load and i just keep getting the error asking if i want to run in safe mode.... game does not run in either mode.